You know your message, you’ve prepared, you want to get it right.

But when you become too focused on saying the right thing, you can lose sight of the people you’re actually speaking to. You stop reading the room, miss the signals that people are confused or disengaging, and often end up explaining more when what’s really needed is connection.

Learn the simple shift that can help you stop communicating at people and start communicating with them.

We like to think we're making conscious decisions throughout a conversation or when we are speaking in public, but I suspect many of us are simply watching well-rehearsed patterns unfold. Patterns we've been reinforcing for years without ever questioning whether they're still serving us.

That isn't necessarily a problem. In fact, many of those patterns are incredibly useful and make life easy.

The problem arises when an old pattern takes over before you've had the chance to decide whether it's still appropriate.

Why do intelligent professionals overexplain in meetings or lose their train of though when speaking in public?

It isn't usually a lack of confidence or communication skills.

Discover how attention shifts under pressure, why it changes the way you speak, and a simple mindset shift that leads to clearer, more confident communication.

There is a moment you might recognise when you speak in public. Let me paint a picture. You are in a meeting, a question comes your way, and suddenly the ground shifts. What you know does not disappear, but your access to it does. read more…