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Why You Freeze in Meetings (and How to Always Know What to Say when speaking in public)

Ever been in a meeting or spoke in public and suddenly… your brain just stops? You know you should speak up, but your thoughts spin: “Do I sound smart? What if I miss something? Maybe I should stay quiet.”

For many professionals, it’s not nerves, it’s the lack of a clear frame. Without a simple plan, ideas scatter and confidence drops.

Learn how a small shift, mapping your message before you speak, can help you go from overthinking to owning the room, expressing yourself clearly, and making an impact every time.

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The Secret to Staying Calm When the Spotlight’s On You (especially when speaking in public)

Many leaders appear calm and capable on the surface, until it’s time to speak in front of others. That’s where Alex, a steady and conscientious manager, struggled most.

Leading projects came easily, but the moment he had to present or speak publicly, confidence wavered, and anxiety took over.

In this story, I share what was really happening beneath the surface, and how a few surprising shifts helped Alex move from overthinking and self-doubt to composure and clarity when it mattered most.

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Value Tagging: Unlocking the Psychology of Influence when public speaking

Have you ever felt like your emotions are running the show in meetings or presentations, even when you think you’re being logical?

That’s your brain’s value tagging at work, deciding what matters, often unconsciously, before you even realise it.

In this blog, I break down: How your brain tags logic vs emotion. Why the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon makes you notice certain things more than others. How mindful communication helps you show up with composure, clarity, and credibility

If you’ve ever wanted to stop letting old habits control your meetings and start making conscious, high-impact communication choices, this one’s for you.

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Meeting Anxiety And Why Your Mind Might Be Hijacking Your Confidence

Ever walked into a meeting fully prepared… only to feel like you’re losing the room the moment you start speaking?

Most people blame their slides or facts, but the real issue is often how you show up. Composure, clarity, and confidence matter far more than trying to impress.

By preparing not just your content but your state of mind for public speaking, anticipating pitfalls while focusing on the outcomes you want, you can connect with the room genuinely, speak with confidence, and build credibility with ease.

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The One Thing Everyone Notices Before You Even Speak

So often, we focus on what we say when we speak in public, in meetings or presentations but rarely on how we show up.

Your pace, posture, tone, and energy send powerful nonverbal messages before a single word is spoken.

Taking a moment to check in with yourself, breathe, and reconnect can transform your presence and your impact. Remember: your presence is your message.

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Why Being “Bossy” Backfires - And How to Lead With Influence Instead

Ever notice how no one likes being bossed around? Whether it’s at work, home, or anywhere in between, being told what to do usually sparks resistance or shuts things down.

But what if there was a better way to get your point across—one that actually connects, motivates, and gets people on board?

In my latest blog, I share how mindful communication helps you do just that: speak with calm, clarity, and confidence without sounding “bossy.”

If you want to lead better meetings, handle tricky conversations without stress, or just be heard without the anxiety, this one’s for you.

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How Your Brain Could Be Hijacking Your Confidence, and What You Can Do About It.

Have you ever asked yourself how you decide to gun for that newly opened parking spot at the shopping center, or quietly move out of the way when someone seems like trouble (without any real evidence)?

It might feel like a conscious decision.
But beneath the surface, your amygdala, the brain’s emotional alarm system, is often making the choice for you. This Blog Post will help you to make better choices and become a more confident communicator, when speaking in public or having difficult conversations. Take back your power now!

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The One Skill Great Managers Use to Unlock Team Potential (And Most Are Overlooking It)

Great teams don’t just thrive on KPIs—they thrive on psychological safety. And the fastest way to build that? Mindful communication.

It’s not about being soft. It’s about being present, clear, and intentional. When managers model this, teams open up, ideas flow, and performance soars.

Want to unlock your team’s full potential? Start with how you communicate.

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Finding Your Voice as a Leader: How to Speak with Impact

Your message matters, but if people aren’t engaged, it won’t land. Many leaders struggle with rushing through their message, failing to connect with their audience, or lacking structure—making it hard for people to follow. To fix this, slow down and use pauses for clarity, engage with eye contact and awareness of the room, and structure your message with compelling storytelling. Great speakers don’t just talk; they captivate. Master these skills and lead with impact.

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Public Speaking Feels Like Life or Death—Here’s Why (And How to Fix It!)

Do your hands shake, heart race, or mind go blank before a presentation? Public speaking anxiety is common, but the real issue isn’t the audience—it’s how your nervous system reacts to perceived threats. Your brain triggers a fight-or-flight response, making you feel like you’re facing danger instead of a room full of colleagues. The key to overcoming this fear is understanding how to regulate your body's response and stay in control.

By learning to manage your physiological reactions, you can shift from panic to clarity and speak with confidence. Small adjustments in how you prepare, focus, and engage with your audience can make a significant difference. With the right approach, public speaking can become less about fear and more about connection, impact, and presence.

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The Hidden Weight Your Team Carries (and How to Recognise It)

You’ve probably seen this scenario: One of your top performers is still delivering great results, but something seems off. They’re quieter, less engaged, and maybe even avoiding eye contact.

 

What if I told you they might be carrying an invisible load that’s affecting their performance? This is emotional labour—the effort people put into managing their emotions to meet workplace expectations.

 

In this blog post, I want to share how emotional labour shows up in your team, why non-verbal cues matter, and how you can become a more mindful communicator to support your team’s well-being and performance.

 

Read the full article to learn how to spot emotional labour and create an environment where your team feels seen and supported.

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You’re Doing It Wrong: The Simple Breathing Hack That Instantly Boosts Confidence!

Ever feel like pressure hijacks your best self just when you need to shine? Whether it's a high-stakes presentation or a heated conversation, stress can take over—unless you take charge first.

The secret? Breathwork. Techniques like box breathing help calm your body, clear your mind, and transform tension into poise. When your body feels grounded, your confidence and communication follow.

Master your breath, master the moment. It's not just about speaking; it's about owning every space you step into. Ready to take control, one breath at a time?

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Sweating More in Training, Bleeding Less in Battle: How Mindfulness and Breathwork Transform Public Speaking

Let’s be honest—heading into a big presentation hoping you’ll wing it often feels like showing up to battle without armour. If you’ve ever felt like a passenger in your own presentation, this article’s for you. We dive into why practising mindful presence and box breathing can keep you cool, calm, and collected in the spotlight, helping you bring your A-game without the jitters.

Grab the free tools for focused practice, and you’ll build the confidence to own any room (no frantic sweating required). Ready to sweat less and shine more?

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Reclaiming Calm: How to Overcome the Mind-Melting Effects of Anxiety

Have you ever found yourself caught in an endless loop of thoughts, struggling to break free? It’s a familiar sensation for many of us—those moments when our minds race uncontrollably, leading us down the dark alley of overwhelm and anxiety.

I remember a time when I was 24 and stepping up in my career, preparing for an important interview. The night before, I lay in bed, replaying every possible scenario in my head, from forgetting my main points to fumbling over my words. As the minutes turned into hours, sleep eluded me, and my anxiety grew heavier. At that moment, I felt trapped in a cycle of overthinking, unable to see a way out. - Sound familiar?

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Deadline Panic Mode: How Self-Talk Shapes Our Identity and Saves the Day

Ever found yourself spiraling into panic as a deadline approaches? It's easy to let negative self-talk take over, imagining worst-case scenarios that haven't happened yet. This mindset hijacks your power, pulling you into a mental movie of failure. But here's the truth: you can take control.

By focusing on the present, rewriting your inner dialogue, and having grounding conversations, you shift from being a victim of pressure to a calm, capable leader. Mindful communication and self-awareness allow you to manage stress and shine under pressure.

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 Understanding Amygdala Hijacking: Mastering Your Mind and Emotions Under Pressure

Ever feel like your brain shuts down right when you need it most? Whether it's during a presentation, meeting new people, or navigating a tough conversation, that moment of panic is what we call amygdala hijacking.

Your body goes into fight-or-flight mode, making it nearly impossible to think clearly. But here's the good news: you can take control!

By listening to your body and using simple techniques like box breathing, you can calm your nerves and stay in control under pressure. If soldiers can use it to stay calm under fire, imagine what it can do for you in a high-stakes meeting!

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