Why Being “Bossy” Backfires - And How to Lead With Influence Instead

Ever notice how no one likes being bossed around? Whether it’s at work, home, or anywhere in between, being told what to do usually sparks resistance or shuts things down.

But what if there was a better way to get your point across—one that actually connects, motivates, and gets people on board?

In my latest blog, I share how mindful communication helps you do just that: speak with calm, clarity, and confidence without sounding “bossy.”

If you want to lead better meetings, handle tricky conversations without stress, or just be heard without the anxiety, this one’s for you.

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Reclaiming Calm: How to Overcome the Mind-Melting Effects of Anxiety

Have you ever found yourself caught in an endless loop of thoughts, struggling to break free? It’s a familiar sensation for many of us—those moments when our minds race uncontrollably, leading us down the dark alley of overwhelm and anxiety.

I remember a time when I was 24 and stepping up in my career, preparing for an important interview. The night before, I lay in bed, replaying every possible scenario in my head, from forgetting my main points to fumbling over my words. As the minutes turned into hours, sleep eluded me, and my anxiety grew heavier. At that moment, I felt trapped in a cycle of overthinking, unable to see a way out. - Sound familiar?

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Speaking Up When It’s Hard: A Guide for Conscientious Professionals

Have you ever been in a situation where you were asked a question—maybe in a professional setting—where you knew you knew the answer? But in that urgent moment, with the pressure mounting from those around you, your thoughts scattered. You couldn't collect yourself, and instead of delivering a confident answer, you stuttered out something incoherent. The people you wanted to impress now potentially have an opinion of you that doesn’t represent who you truly are. Does that sound familiar?

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